The Nomad Love Lab Study

Real Stories. Real Challenges. Real Connections.

At Nomad Love Lab, we’re redefining what it means to find love as a digital nomad — and I believe your voice is a crucial part of that story.

Whether you're navigating long-distance relationships, dating across cultures, managing love while moving between cities (or countries!), or simply wondering if deep connection is possible when life is always changing, your experiences matter.

Please take a few minutes to share your story.

Your insights will help uncover the real patterns, challenges, and breakthroughs happening in the global nomadic dating world — and together, we can build better tools, resources, and support systems for modern love on the move.

Expat and Digital Nomad Relationship Survey

Your insights are invaluable in understanding the relationship experiences of expats, digital nomads and immigrants. Kind reminder, to not take this survey if you are not an expat or digital nomad or immigrant. All responses are anonymous. Thank you for participating in this survey!

The estimated time to complete this survey is 7-15 minutes. Please continue to the end. I only receive your input if you save the completed survey.

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Section 1: Exploring Love and/or Adventure

Let’s get straight into it! This section invites you to reflect on your current mindset and priorities regarding travel and relationships.

Traveling is more important to me than finding love. *

Exploring new places takes precedence over deepening my romantic relationship. *

A partner’s ability to travel is more important to me than our compatibility in values. *

My romantic relationships abroad accelerate quicker than if I were back home. *

What’s the shortest amount of time you've been romantically involved with someone before agreeing to travel to a different location with them? *

Do you prioritize dating someone with similar life goals (e.g., long-term travel, settling down, starting a family)? *

What level of sexual activity are you? (Optional)

Section 2: Who Are You? Unpacking Demographics

Help me understand the diverse backgrounds and travel experiences of our respondents. Your demographic information will provide valuable context for my study.

What's your gender? *

What are your pronouns? *

Date of birth *

Where is your home City/Country? *

What City/Country are you currently located? *

What languages can you speak? *

How long have you been traveling/living abroad? *

How long do you tend to spend in locations? *

Do you often bounce between the same 2 or 3 locations within a year? *

What factors influence your decision to travel to or live in a new location? (Select all that apply) *

Adventure and exploration

Job opportunities

Cultural experiences

Personal relationships (visiting friends, family, or partners)

Weather and natural beauty

Recommendations from friends or travel blogs

Do you consider yourself to be an Expat, Digital Nomad or Immigrant? (Check all that apply)

Expat: A person living in a foreign country, often long-term.
Digital Nomad: A remote worker who travels frequently and has no fixed base.
Immigrant: A person who has moved to a foreign country with the intent of residing there permanently or for an extended period, often seeking legal residency or citizenship and integrating into the local community, culture, and economy.

Select which option suits you best: *

Expat

Digital Nomad

Immigrant

Section 3: The Journey of the Heart

Whether you're navigating new relationships, maintaining long-term commitments, or reflecting on past experiences, this section aims to uncover the unique challenges and joys that come with building meaningful connections while living abroad or on the move.

What is your preferred relationship style? *

What is your preferred sexuality? (Select the option that best describes you) *

Have you ever moved to a location for a partner or had a partner move to your location for you? *

If yes, are you still together? *

Have you continued living in the same location after relocating for a partner even after you’ve split? *

Have you extended your family while abroad? *

What is your current relationship status? *

Section 4: Currently In a Relationship

Explore how language and cultural differences possibly shape your relationship.

(HIT NEXT UNTIL SECTION 5 - IF YOU ARE SINGLE, XO)

How long have you been in your current relationship for?

Do hope/plan to marry your current partner in the future?

Did your relationship begin before you began living abroad?

Do you feel cultural differences play a significant role in your current relationship?

Is your partner fluent in your native language?

Are you fluent in your partner’s native language?

Do you feel that living abroad has changed gender roles in your relationship?

Are you happy with your relationship dynamics?

Have you ever sought outside help to address concerns in your relationship?

Do you feel that you lack resources or support during difficult moments with your partner?

How do you typically resolve conflicts with your partner while traveling or living abroad?

We discuss it immediately and find a solution

We let things settle and address it later

We often need external help (friends, family, professionals)

We avoid discussing it

Another way

Has living abroad impacted the financial dynamics in your relationship?

Yes, it has caused financial strain

Yes, but it has been positive

No, we have not experienced any financial difficulties

Has your health and wellness (physical or mental) impacted your relationship while living abroad?

Yes, positively

Yes, negatively

No, not significantly

What are the biggest positive aspects of your relationship related to your lifestyle as an expat, digital nomad or immigrant? (Select all at apply)

Shared adventures: Traveling and exploring new places together strengthens the bond.

Deeper connections through challenges: Overcoming obstacles like cultural differences and travel logistics fosters emotional growth and resilience.

Greater independence: Both partners have the freedom to pursue individual passions and personal growth while still maintaining the relationship.

More open-minded dynamics: Greater acceptance of non-traditional relationship styles, such as open or long-distance relationships.

Stronger communication skills: Navigating time zones, cultures, and travel plans encourages better communication and problem-solving.

Flexible relationship roles: Less pressure to adhere to traditional gender roles or societal expectations.

Exposure to new cultures together: Learning and growing as a couple through shared cultural experiences.

Quality over quantity: Limited time together encourages partners to make the most of every moment, leading to more meaningful interactions.

Other

What are the biggest negative aspects of your relationship related to your lifestyle as an expat, digital nomad or immigrant?

Uncertainty and instability: Frequent moves and changing plans can make it hard to maintain a stable relationship.

Long-distance challenges: Managing time zones, communication gaps, and the emotional strain of being apart for extended periods.

Limited quality time: Busy travel schedules or work commitments can reduce opportunities for meaningful time together.

Visa and residency complications: Legal barriers can create stress or uncertainty about staying together in the same country.

Difficulty building a support network: Being far from family and familiar friends can leave couples feeling isolated.

Mismatch in lifestyle preferences: Tensions when one partner prefers stability while the other thrives on constant travel.

Cultural misunderstandings: Differences in cultural norms and expectations can lead to miscommunication or conflict.

Pressure to conform or change: Feeling the need to adjust personal or relationship priorities to accommodate the partner’s lifestyle.

Other

Section 5: Future Plans and Relationship Goals

This section examines your aspirations for the future
regarding relationships and personal life. We’ll explore how your experiences abroad shape your thoughts on
commitment, family, and the balance between travel and stability.

(HIT NEXT UNTIL SECTION 6 - IF YOU ARE NOT SINGLE, XO)

What are your primary goals in dating as a single digital nomad/expat? (select all that apply)

Casual/Fun

Serious/Long-term

I'm ready for my life partner

Just exploring/Not sure yet

I feel pressure to find a life partner while living abroad.

Do you see your nomadic lifestyle as a permanent way of living, and how do you think this affects your relationships?

Yes, it’s permanent and doesn’t affect relationships

Yes, it’s permanent but it causes challenges in relationships

No, I plan to head home and settle down at some point

Do you have goals to start a family?

Do you hope to find a partner and get married in the future?

How has living abroad affected your thoughts on having or raising children?

Have you ever dated to been in a relationship with a local while abroad?

If yes, were you and that partner able to communicate in each other's languages?

Do you prefer to date locals or fellow expats/digital nomads?

What are the biggest positive aspects with dating related to your lifestyle as an expat, digital nomad or immigrant? (Select all that apply)

Exposure to diverse cultures: Gaining new perspectives and enriching your worldview by dating people from different backgrounds.

Personal growth: Learning to adapt, communicate, and grow emotionally through cross-cultural relationships.

Shared love for travel: Connecting with partners who share similar values around adventure, exploration, and flexibility.

Increased openness: Meeting people with more open-minded attitudes toward unconventional relationships and lifestyles.

Opportunities for meaningful connections: Building deeper connections with like-minded individuals, even in short timeframes.

Flexibility in relationship dynamics: Greater acceptance of alternative relationship styles, such as long-distance or open relationships.

Self-discovery: Exploring what you want in relationships through varied experiences and new environments.

Fewer societal expectations: Less pressure to conform to traditional norms around relationships, marriage, or children.

Other

What are the biggest negative aspects with dating related to your lifestyle as an expat, digital nomad or immigrant? (Select all that apply)

Cultural differences: Navigating different customs, traditions, or expectations around dating and relationships.

Language barriers: Struggling to communicate effectively in a non-native language.

Short-term mindsets: Many people in the expat/digital nomad community are not looking for long-term commitments.

Distance from family and friends: Lacking familiar support systems for relationship advice and emotional support.

Visa or legal issues: Difficulties with visas or residency affecting the stability of the relationship.

Limited dating pool: Finding it hard to meet compatible partners in a new or transient environment.

Different relationship styles: Navigating differences in how partners approach relationships (e.g., casual vs. serious, monogamy vs. open relationships, or differing expectations around personal space and independence).

Time zones and travel schedules: Maintaining connections while managing frequent travel or different time zones.

Other

Section 6: Final Reflections on Your Journey (Optional Section)

This is your space to share personal anecdotes and
reflections. We value your unique experiences and insights
as an expat, digital nomad or immigrant.

What’s your craziest, wildest, or most romantic experience as an expat/digital nomad?

Is there anything else you’d like to share about your experiences in relation to dating or being in a relationship as an expat/digital nomad?

If you'd like to participate in future Nomad Love Lab research or receive the results of this survey, please provide your email. Please note: I will only be sharing only quantitative findings/averages/percentages/etc not names, email addresses or stories.

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